Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Heartbroken

After a break up it is very common to ask yourself “can I get my ex boyfriend back?” This may be something that you think about a lot, perhaps even several times a day. The good news is that there are things that you can do to get your ex back but be careful of what you are thinking of trying as some things could be disastrous.

Below are some of the questions I had when my boyfriend broke up with me. I was lucky enough to find The Magic Of Making Up, where I found the answers to all my questions.

I wanted to share some of them here because they were so helpful to me, I hope you will find them useful.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?

This is a very tricky situation and it will be really hard to get any time alone with your ex right now. Also you have to be aware that he will be giving his attention to the new relationship and that, for now, you are in the past. But it is still possible to get back together after this. The action that you have to take is to be nice. This way your ex gets to see what a wonderful person you are and what he is missing by not being with you.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?

Now the answer to this may seem really obvious but what you have to remember is that even a tiny lie is trickery. You don’t want to be in the situation where you get back together only to be broken up again a few weeks later when he realises that you lied. It is never right to tell a lie, don’t be tempted.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

Well, this one can work but if it backfires (which it can do) then it doesn’t just hurt you and your ex, it also hurts the new guy. Its really not fair to date someone purely to try to make your ex jealous. Think about how you would feel if someone did that to you. And also consider that when your ex sees you with someone new he may think you have moved on and he will do the same.

In this situation if you really want to date someone then do that if you need it to make you happy but always be honest with yourself and everyone else. If you are honest then you stand a much better chance of getting back together with your ex.

What is the easiest thing I can do right now to get my ex boyfriend back?

It may seem really obvious and it can also be quite difficult to do if you are hurting but it is really essential to be nice. Be nice to him and nice about him, make yourself a pleasure to be around. If you are nasty or nagging or rude about him then it will only make him realise why he does not want to be with you and will make him very reluctant to spend time with you.

You don’t want to drive him further away at this time so always be pleasant and friendly with him every time you see him.

This may be quite difficult if you have to be fake but if this is the case then instead of asking yourself how you can change or how you should act around him then maybe you should be asking yourself why you were together in the first place. Do you really like him as much as you say you do? You may find that it would be better for you to be with someone who doesn’t make you feel like you have to pretend.

But if you are able to be pleasant to him then it may make you realise that perhaps you should have been this nice to one another when you were together and he will realise that too.

But remember that you can’t change the past. There is no point going over it and trying to lay blame on your ex for the way you were together. In fact you can use this to your advantage later down the line when you are together again by saying to him that you know now what you did wrong. Point it out to him, let him know that you realise you took him for granted. But don’t expect him to admit the same to you. That is not necessary, you have to trust that he does know what he did wrong.


As I said before these are not my own ideas – these are ones that I learned from T Dub Jackson, the author of The Magic of Making Up. I was so low when my boyfriend split up with me and I bought his e-book, initially quite sceptical about the help it could give me. But I can honestly say that its been the best thing I could have done.

The advice he gives is so down to earth and it not only got my boyfriend back but it also calmed me down and gave me a lot of self confidence and a new belief in true love.

Relationships are not a game but there are things that you can do which will help you to get back the one you love.

If you really want him back click on this link for a really great down to earth e-book with all the advice you will ever need.

YOU CAN GET HIM BACK! :-)

7 comments:

  1. I don’t know if we will get back together again but I am very relieved that my ex and I are talking again after almost a month of a long bitter silence. if not for priestoflovespell@yahoo.com this wont have been successful.

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  6. After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealing@gmail.com or call him +2349055637784 you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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