Heartbroken

After a break up it is very common to ask yourself “can I get my ex boyfriend back?” This may be something that you think about a lot, perhaps even several times a day. The good news is that there are things that you can do to get your ex back but be careful of what you are thinking of trying as some things could be disastrous.

Below are some of the questions I had when my boyfriend broke up with me. I was lucky enough to find The Magic Of Making Up, where I found the answers to all my questions.

I wanted to share some of them here because they were so helpful to me, I hope you will find them useful.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?

This is a very tricky situation and it will be really hard to get any time alone with your ex right now. Also you have to be aware that he will be giving his attention to the new relationship and that, for now, you are in the past. But it is still possible to get back together after this. The action that you have to take is to be nice. This way your ex gets to see what a wonderful person you are and what he is missing by not being with you.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?

Now the answer to this may seem really obvious but what you have to remember is that even a tiny lie is trickery. You don’t want to be in the situation where you get back together only to be broken up again a few weeks later when he realises that you lied. It is never right to tell a lie, don’t be tempted.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

Well, this one can work but if it backfires (which it can do) then it doesn’t just hurt you and your ex, it also hurts the new guy. Its really not fair to date someone purely to try to make your ex jealous. Think about how you would feel if someone did that to you. And also consider that when your ex sees you with someone new he may think you have moved on and he will do the same.

In this situation if you really want to date someone then do that if you need it to make you happy but always be honest with yourself and everyone else. If you are honest then you stand a much better chance of getting back together with your ex.

What is the easiest thing I can do right now to get my ex boyfriend back?

It may seem really obvious and it can also be quite difficult to do if you are hurting but it is really essential to be nice. Be nice to him and nice about him, make yourself a pleasure to be around. If you are nasty or nagging or rude about him then it will only make him realise why he does not want to be with you and will make him very reluctant to spend time with you.

You don’t want to drive him further away at this time so always be pleasant and friendly with him every time you see him.

This may be quite difficult if you have to be fake but if this is the case then instead of asking yourself how you can change or how you should act around him then maybe you should be asking yourself why you were together in the first place. Do you really like him as much as you say you do? You may find that it would be better for you to be with someone who doesn’t make you feel like you have to pretend.

But if you are able to be pleasant to him then it may make you realise that perhaps you should have been this nice to one another when you were together and he will realise that too.

But remember that you can’t change the past. There is no point going over it and trying to lay blame on your ex for the way you were together. In fact you can use this to your advantage later down the line when you are together again by saying to him that you know now what you did wrong. Point it out to him, let him know that you realise you took him for granted. But don’t expect him to admit the same to you. That is not necessary, you have to trust that he does know what he did wrong.


As I said before these are not my own ideas – these are ones that I learned from T Dub Jackson, the author of The Magic of Making Up. I was so low when my boyfriend split up with me and I bought his e-book, initially quite sceptical about the help it could give me. But I can honestly say that its been the best thing I could have done.

The advice he gives is so down to earth and it not only got my boyfriend back but it also calmed me down and gave me a lot of self confidence and a new belief in true love.

Relationships are not a game but there are things that you can do which will help you to get back the one you love.

If you really want him back click on this link for a really great down to earth e-book with all the advice you will ever need.

YOU CAN GET HIM BACK! :-)

How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend

I remember when I was wondering “how can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?” I spent hours thinking about it and eventually I found the advice I needed. I am passing on this advice to you in this article but remember that mending a broken relationship is never simple. You will need to make sacrifices and compromises to get what you want

If you do this not only will you have a better chance of getting your ex back but you will also be preparing for better future relationships.

So, How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend, you ask?

Well instead of stressing over this one question and wasting time thinking about it you could be taking action right now that will help you to get back together with your ex boyfriend.

First of all what you should be doing is accepting that the break up of the relationship is an indication that something went wrong. If your boyfriend initiated the split then you need to work out what led him to do what he did. Most often relationships fail because there was either too much of you in it and he needed to get out to have his own space and freedom or there was not enough of you in it and he felt neglected. So if you are asking yourself “how can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?” then a good way to start to find the answer is to work out what went wrong and act accordingly.

The harsh truth of the matter is that if your boyfriend broke up with you then it was either something that you did or something that you didn’t do. He was the one who did the breaking up so there must have been something to drive him away. It isn’t nice to think about it this way but if you do then you are well on the way to getting back together because when you work out what went wrong and what your part was in it then you can work out what to do to make it right again.

So the best first step for you is to sit down quietly and think of all the things that could have caused the break up, from both sides. Think of what things were your fault and what was his fault and also the things that were no ones fault at all. Noew that you have all the facts you have to learn how to use them.

First of all discard all the reasons that were no ones fault. There is no point dwelling on these anymore as they could not be helped and are out of your control. Just focus on what was your fault and in particular, the ones that you can do something about.

If you find that the break has been caused by something that you did and that you could change then instead of feeling sorry for yourself or looking for ways to blame your ex you should look at this as a good thing. Now you have the option of changing because changing this could be your first step to getting back together.

If you are willing to make changes and take action then you have a chance of getting him back. Just remember its all about give and take and taking action! Good Luck!

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